Babaji is explaining the duties of a Vaisnavas, daily sadhana and miscellaneous rules, keeping in mind the lifestyle, responsibilities, capabilities, and availability of time of a modern-day devotee.
It is very difficult to understand that my happiness does not depend on anyone else. Our whole childhood training is that my happiness depends on others. My happiness actually depends on my own state of mind, which has nothing to do with what others say or do.
